My Mom Hates Me

My mom hates me ever since she found out I ... what should I do? 3

My mother was never wise or prudent. She is the single mother of my older brother and me and I were born that way 17 years ago. She has always been very strict with me and can be described as a very protective mother, which puts me under pressure. J'ai toujours fait des parfaites ka chond karte hain (Straight As in Scol, active dans les services communautaires, etc.) pour la rendre fière de moi, but never elle ne m'a vraiment reconnu or m'a dit du bon travail pour quoi que good. Now that I'm older (17) I want to go out a little bit and have a boyfriend. He was totally against the idea that I had a girlfriend somewhere else, so I had to keep my word a secret.

After 5 months of dating my boyfriend and I decided we were ready to do it together and I really felt like I really enjoyed it so we did (I'm sponsored) ). Unfortunately, I didn't see when I dropped the package myself, so my mom found it the next day when I was at school. My mother called me and she was really mad at me. He scolded me and called me a lot and said I was weird for what I did.

It's been more than a month since that incident and it's getting scarier to me every day. For the first 2 weeks, he didn't see me or talk to me. And if she mentions me, talk to my aunt and make sure she listens. He said things like: I am not human, he no longer sees me as a child, he wants to deny me and make me useless. He even said that he no longer cared about me and that I could do what was necessary. He has been taking my car since the day of the incident which has made it very difficult for me to go to school and after school to clubs etc. The whole time I was depressed by the way he treated me. When he spoke to me, there were always really difficult things that made me run away and never come back.

I've tried to talk to him a few times, but every time I try to talk to him, I feel like he's scolding me and saying he doesn't want to hear it and that's fine. Then he went to his room and closed the door.

For me, every day is like that. It's always a constant reprimand that makes me very depressed. I was depressed because he was so ■■■■■■■ me. I do not know what to do. I've tried to put everything aside and live my life as usual, but I can't. It eats away at me and hurts. Help!

Note: I admit that I was wrong and many times I apologize. My friend is always with me and at the moment he is the only person who was with me and did everything to meet all my needs.

As far as single mothers are concerned ... I have always done well in everything and as a mother did my best to make life easier for her.

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To dispel a misconception, my mother never married. There she expected me to be like her (wait until you get married). He always told me that when he was my age he was ignorant and his mother was very strict with him ...

Your mother just wants you to have more than she had. As a single parent, she thinks about all her mistakes. It involves a lot of responsibility. Doesn't group you. Even with protection, you are more likely to get pregnant or have an STD. Do you or a friend have a permanent job with an income that can be responsible for raising children? You always thought that would never happen to me. There are many mothers. That's why your mother is sad. He wants more for you. He doesn't want you to fight like that. Talk to her and tell her that you are sorry for disappointing her. When you are old enough to have a serious conversation with him.

If you are not taking a pill, ask her to help you make that decision. Communication is the key element. Your mother thinks you are not old enough to take her. Mom thinks we're small. We find it difficult to accept that they are no longer children. Tell mom we can talk seriously. I think your reaction will surprise you. Bone LIP, I help somehow.

Sometimes, as parents, we love our children very much and we want to protect them from everything. He's really in pain right now and he has no way to express how he's feeling.

I suggest you talk to a scol ut it counselor ... if there is a social worker in your scol, you can talk to them for feedback or positive suggestions. I will also write to your mother ... to tell her that you love her and now you need her to love you and not to make a decision. Let him know that there is no reason to exclude yourself. Tell him that if he really loves you as a parent loves a child ... even if he is raised that way, he will not understand your mistakes and will not rub your face.

You also need to understand that care must be shared with someone you want to share your life with ... it's not just your mother's eyes, it's your little girl Is part of the beauty and innocence of .......

My Mom Hates Me

You may find it difficult to understand your mother's feelings. He takes care of you, gives up on himself, tries to cut you off in a good way, and decides at the age of 17 that he knows what's best for you. I think it's a mistake to think that you are not ready, especially since it means you are growing up and don't really need it. If you have children today, you will understand. I don't think he expects you to be what he is, I think he assures you.
You are not ready for your child to grow up.
Health is improving. Give him time, let him come to you and let you take him.
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I'm sorry to hear that you had an unusual and unpleasant experience with your loved one. Let me tell you that you did nothing wrong and immediately stop blaming yourself, stop now. The problem is that her mother and she need mental health advice and counseling. All parents try to raise them as they think they should and / or they think they should and that is the reason for their negative attitude and I feel their pain. You are a very intelligent young woman with an organized life and purpose. And sometimes people forget the kindness of others and see our mistakes and mistakes because that's part of education, that's all. With all due respect to her mother, she lives in an imaginary world where everything is perfect and everything is not. At the time, she was a single mother for many years. At this point, you should speed up your search for tips that will be needed first. He has been rejected for so long that he needs medical advice and counseling to understand the danger and what danger his reaction is causing to his family. I talk to my mother from experience. Bless her soul. Always remember that you are not wrong about age and intelligence.
It seems your mother is worried and scared that you will grow up too fast, as she says. You are their youngest son, they only see their children with their mother. Also, if viewed from the outside, he can be very protective of you and expect you to follow in his footsteps (reasonable or ridiculous, depending on your point of view).
I suggest you let them talk about it and focus on your homework and school activities. I'm not going to tell you because everyone has to make the decisions they think are appropriate.
Assuming you have goals that you want to achieve in life, remember: or not, an unintentional mistake (pin intent) can turn your life into a worm. I wish you a happy journey in your life. And don't forget that there is always a light at the end of each tunnel.
sorry to hear that! If you can I will stay away from it for a while. No one should listen to what they say to you! Basically because she's your mom! Are there aunts, uncles, grandparents or cousins who can stay with you for a while and maybe ask you to talk to your mother? I know this is going to be difficult, but it hurts you and nobody deserves it! You are wrong, you say you are sorry and she should love you because you are her daughter! You're not a monster, that's all! What he did to you is awesome !! So I'm going to get away from it and, if need be, maybe ask a friend if I can stay with it for a while. Ask them to take you to and from school, and so on. Sorry to hear that and I can see that everything works!
This is a very difficult situation. Unfortunately, your mom was raised in a special way and she thinks everyone should go that route (I personally think you should expect to have your boyfriend), but I understand that not everyone does this and I do not think differently about people. Don't wait I think you need to have a nice talk with your mom and explain that if she doesn't listen, it's not fair, can you move on? Your parents or other family members? You can also talk to a counselor about your depression and ask if they have any advice on how to talk to your mother. Take your time to go, see if you can work with your mom and maybe wait until you are with her.

My Mom Hates Me

Wow, your mother is nothing but a whore! Are your aunts like that? If not, talk to her. Let him know that you made a mistake and try to talk him out of it, apologize, and so on. And he can be on your side if not ... I'm sorry ... I ... I don't know if you didn't talk to him. Your aunt, unless she is emotionally negligent at school or stays with a friend until the end of school. .. I'm really ashamed :(!

Personally, I think you should keep talking to your mother. Respect and please him, he will come back one day. Glad you have your friend. :) Good I !! You didn't do much wrong ... maybe because your mother didn't want you to grow up so fast ...?

Autumn

Make a promise and tell her that it was her mother's fault for saying all this and living her life and you gave her what she wanted, and maybe she really cared.